BelongingMark 5:32

He Stopped a Whole Crowd to Find the One Person Nobody Had Noticed

This message is for the reader who is present, dutiful and completely unknown

She worked it out on a Tuesday, doing something else entirely.

She has been in that building every week of her life. She knows where everybody sits. She knows which of the men will pray longest and which of the aunties will bring the good sarmale and which door sticks in the winter.

And nobody has ever asked her a question she had to think about before answering.

She wants to be careful here, because it would be easy to say that wrong. Nobody has been unkind. People ask how she is, and they mean it, and if anything happened to her family there would be forty people at the door inside an hour and half of them carrying food.

It is not coldness. It is that the room is busy, and there is always something to set up or clear away, and everybody in it is carrying their own weight, and there is no natural moment in the shape of a Sunday for somebody to ask her what she actually believes.

So nobody has. Twenty-four years.

He stopped the whole thing for one person

There is a crowd pressing in on Jesus and He is on His way somewhere urgent. A man's daughter is dying and they are moving.

A woman reaches out. She has been ill twelve years, she has spent everything she had, and she does it from behind, in a crowd, on purpose, so that nobody will see.

And He stops.

And Jesus, immediately knowing in himself that virtue had gone out of him, turned him about in the press, and said, Who touched my clothes? And his disciples said unto him, Thou seest the multitude thronging thee, and sayest thou, Who touched me? (Mark 5:30-31, King James Version)

The disciples' reaction is the reasonable one. Everybody is touching Him. It is a crowd.

And He keeps looking:

And he looked round about to see her that had done this thing. (Mark 5:32)

He waits. In the middle of an emergency, with a whole street watching, until the most anonymous person in the scene has to come forward.

And then the first word He says to her:

But he said unto her, Daughter, thy faith hath made thee whole; go in peace. (Mark 5:34)

Daughter. That is what He calls her. Nobody else in the passage is given a word like that.

You are not somebody He looks past. Mark 5 has Him stopping an urgent journey for the one person nobody had registered, and it is His Spirit who makes that reach somebody who has been in a room for years without being asked anything.

He is described as knowing names, plural

This is not a one-off. It is stated as a general description of what He is like.

To him the porter openeth; and the sheep hear his voice: and he calleth his own sheep by name, and leadeth them out... I am the good shepherd, and know my sheep, and am known of mine. (John 10:3,14)

By name. Not by row. Not by family. Not by which Sunday you serve.

And God says it directly through Isaiah:

Fear not: for I have redeemed thee, I have called thee by thy name; thou art mine. (Isaiah 43:1)

I have called thee by thy name.

You are known by name by the One this room is for. John 10 makes it His stated practice, and it is the Holy Spirit who takes a general truth and makes a person feel personally included in it.

There were names carved on a man's chest

Here is a detail from the Old Testament that most people have never had pointed out.

The high priest wore a breastplate, and set into it were twelve stones, and on those stones were the names of the tribes. And here is the instruction about it:

And Aaron shall bear the names of the children of Israel in the breastplate of judgment upon his heart, when he goeth in unto the holy place, for a memorial before the LORD continually. (Exodus 28:29)

Upon his heart. Continually.

You are carried in on somebody's chest, at the level of the heart, continually. Exodus 28:29 describes the arrangement in that detail and Hebrews 7:25 says who the high priest is now, and it is His Spirit who makes an old piece of priestly equipment land as something about a person.

Every time that man walked into the presence of God, he was carrying the names. Not a summary. Not a number for the congregation. The names, worn on his chest, at the level of his heart, as a permanent arrangement.

And Hebrews says who our high priest is now, and that He is there for us continually (Hebrews 7:25).

Your name is carried in, and it is not lost in a total. Exodus 28 describes the arrangement in detail, and it is His Spirit who makes an old piece of priestly equipment land as something about you.

Paul, who could have written anything, wrote a list

The end of Romans is the strangest thing in the letter, and it is strange because it is boring.

After eleven chapters of the deepest theology anybody has ever written, Paul closes with a list of names. Twenty-six of them, one after another, with small details attached.

Greet Priscilla and Aquila my helpers in Christ Jesus... Salute my wellbeloved Epaenetus... Greet Mary, who bestowed much labour on us... Salute Andronicus and Junia, my kinsmen... Greet Amplias my beloved in the Lord. (Romans 16:3-8)

We know almost nothing about most of them. Amplias appears here and nowhere else in all of Scripture, and Paul calls him beloved.

That is what a man does at the end of his greatest letter. He names people, individually, most of whom nobody would ever hear of again, and he notes what they did.

You are not unknown, whatever the room has managed to notice. Romans 16:8 has Paul calling a man beloved who appears nowhere else in all of Scripture, and it is the Holy Spirit who is described in 1 Corinthians 12:11 as dividing to every man severally as He will.

Being unknown to the room is not the same as being unknown. Romans 16 has a man writing down names nobody else was going to remember, and it is His Spirit who is described as the one distributing to every member individually.

And the room is not the villain

That must be said plainly, because this article is not a complaint about anybody.

The people in that building are not cold. They are busy and they are carrying things, and the shape of a Sunday genuinely does not contain a moment for the question anybody is waiting for.

That is worth knowing for a practical reason. If nobody is coming to ask, the sentence still needs saying, and there is somebody who has been waiting to hear it and does not need a natural moment in a schedule.

Paul writes about the parts of a body that get less attention and says something surprising about them:

Nay, much more those members of the body, which seem to be more feeble, are necessary. (1 Corinthians 12:22)

Necessary. Not tolerated. Not carried.

You are necessary in a room that has not got round to telling you. 1 Corinthians 12 says it as a fact about how a body works, and it is the Holy Spirit who is named in that chapter as the one who did the arranging.

The breakthrough

So say one true sentence out loud, in your own words.

You are known by name by the One this room is for. Mark 5:32 has Him stopping in the middle of an emergency and refusing to move until the least noticeable person in the crowd came forward, and it is His Spirit rather than anybody's attention who makes that reach a person.

And this is not a case against the people you sit with. You are necessary and they are not cold. The room is busy and carrying things, and the high priest walked in with names on his chest at the level of his heart, and Christ is in you now by the Spirit who is described as arranging every member individually.

Nothing here promises somebody asks you this month. Twenty-four years is twenty-four years, and the woman in the parking lot says the sentence came out badly. What is promised is that He calls His own sheep by name, and that He has never once looked past you (John 10:3, Mark 5:32), and it is His Spirit rather than anybody's attention who makes saying it out loud a receiving.

Declare this over yourself

Say it out loud. You are in Christ and Christ is in you, so the authority to speak over this is genuinely yours, given to you and never invented. He stopped a whole crowd to find one person nobody had noticed, so speak to the feeling of being present and never asked: you have standing to address it because He is the one who calls His own by name. An ambassador carries the King's word and never his own opinion, so say what God has said and leave the outcome to Him. Every line below is John 10:3 and Mark 5:32 handed back in your own voice, and it is His Spirit, not how loud you say it, that makes saying it a receiving.

  1. Feeling of being present and unknown, you are not the truth about me and you do not describe the One this room is for. The Word of God says he calleth his own sheep by name, and leadeth them out, and that is His stated practice and not an exception.
  2. Suspicion that I would not be missed, you are finished in the name of Jesus. I am known and I am necessary, because Mark 5:32 says he looked round about to see her in the middle of an emergency, and His Spirit bears witness with my spirit.
  3. Abba, You have never once looked past me, and Isaiah 43:1 says You have called me by my name and that I am Yours. I receive being known by You today, and I am saying one true sentence out loud in my own words.

Why we ask you to say these out loud

The word this stands on

Mark 5:32

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